Modern day consensual Master/slave relationships are about a submissive agreeing to be trained to serve her Master. It takes both personality and a desire to be in the bdsm lifestyle.All through this site you will hear consensual discussed many times. slave training is setting goals for a consensual slave in training. The term “informed consent” is often used in the lifestyle.A new slave will find the lifestyle crammed with slave positions, protocols, speech restrictions, rituals and rules.
A new dominant in the lifestyle, first must learn to Master a slave girl and conduct safe training and BDSM play. It is not necessary to follow this brand of the lifestyle.Masters have been training slaves long before the books.I, like many relish the books, but prefer my own style of training.Of all things, in slave training, communication is the most important. Often a slave contract clearly states both parties requirements. There is usually no single step from the vanilla world (without bdsm) to a master/slave relationship. For the relationship to work both parties have to understand it and want it. Keeping in mind that the foundation of the BDSM lifestyle is the informed consent of the parties involved.