Relationship advice dating a friend

If you were the unbiased party that both parties trusted when they were together or you were her listening ear and heard all of the wonderful things about him as well as the troubles in the relationship, you probably don’t want to touch that.The reason is, she is going to accuse you or feel as if you had another agenda the entire time.

Ask about his friends…Was this a casual 3 month stint or was this something where years and years were invested?Would you be devastated if she never spoke to you again?If the answer is, “we were just acquaintances and didn’t talk regularly” and you know it really wouldn’t bother you if the friendship was severed then we would recommend that you have a conversation with her just for “good faith” and then proceed.However if you’re still hanging often with the friend and this person will be reintroduced to the same circle, it might not be worth the uncomfortable times that lie ahead with everyone involved.Overall, we agree it is a case-by-case situation and you should tread lightly.Yes you may have had a really great friend in high school or college but over the years you lost touch.

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