Just keep on finding ways to express your love/lust without actually going the whole hog. And from that state, create, invent, write, sing, dance, express yourself! When you mix sex and love, you have the perfect mix for drawing on the creative mind...if you can transmute or turn your desire for sex into a desire for something else, such as writing a poem, working out a business problem or getting direct spiritual insights.When you are hungry, take a piece of fruit into your mouth and just "hold" it there ...see how long you can go without actually chewing it, just close your eyes and taste it, feel its texture, savour everything about it.
He would have taken that buzz of physical closeness and turned it into pure love, and used that energy to figure out his next move in his campaign to peacefully oust the British.Then I'd suggest you start to explore natural health and particularly the area of raw food diet. Do you allow yourself to experience pleasure in your environment, in the beauty and wonder of Nature? Can you get sassy with Barry White, groove to L'il Kim, soar with Mozart, and just delight in the abundance of pleasure and good feelings that music brings you? And if you have a problem with the F-word - practice saying, "I Love To Fuck" 100 times a day until you can say it and take a dirty ribald pleasure in saying it! To paraphrase Paul Mc Cartney you "need somebody to love"! Feel inside and be guided as to how you want to show them that you love them, that you want them! You'll be funnier, more daring, and more original than normal. Hmm, I wonder if my wife would let me do that next time I'm doing a fast?This is a great big wonderful world of sensation and experience. He's a great example of a modern genius using a muse to inspire his creativity. All that is mitigated of course by how nervous you feel, your self-esteem and level of confidence. ;-)Fasting is physically debilitating and you don't have a lot of energy for sex.This will bring your mind to a heightened state of awareness and sensitivity.In expanded states of consciousness you have access to sources of knowledge that you would not otherwise have when simply involved in everyday reality thinking (worry, obsessing, trivial pursuits etc).So learn to tease your desire and hold it at fever pitch, because arousal will benefit you mentally and spiritually.