Good luck :-) Not sure how sites are allowed to run in our great country, when it clearly is only there to rob the hard working citizens of thefrre hard earned money one way or any!I have a couple extremely persistent individuals that have been in contact with me for quite a few months now !
But then when you try to read them they say you can't until you pay for a monthly subscription . The so called men say they are military, then start trying to get you to do things for them.
So, the answer to this problem is married dating online with someone else.
provides a great number of profiles of users who have registered to similar reasons.
Bottom line is both sites are good and if you can afford to join two, you could do worse than those.
And if you get a chance with a nice person grab it with both hands.
Better read their terms and conditions before you use the free trial.