However, while success can be achieved by working hard and developing yourself, relationships can really only happen when you learn to connect with others.
The reason why none of the men I dated cared about my skill as a massage therapist is that I didn’t care enough about what they could bring to the table.
I worked with one client who was a successful business owner, and he would wonder, “I’m a good man.
I’ve worked hard and become successful, and I would treat a woman well.
During that time, I constantly had the thought, “Of course, men will want to date me.
Who wouldn’t want to date a woman who knows how to give a good massage?
When I first started dating my fiance, I was amazed at how quickly my life became disorganized and chaotic in a way it never had when I was on my own.
Simply being a good catch doesn’t mean others will be attracted to you in that way.
In addition to this, most children receive praise for their achievements (good grades, acceptance into elite programs, awards, parental affection, etc.), which encourages them to go after more achievements.
Eventually, they learn the way to achieve these things is through a combination of opportunity and hard work, and they build the habits of success.
This can even become as extreme as setting the goal to “get” a wife the same way you might get a bigger house to live in or a promotion.
This often results in doing a lot of extra work to prove you’re “up for the job” of being someone’s girlfriend.
Get curious and ask questions about them and their life. When there’s no one else in your life, there’s no one around to throw you off your game.