Sometimes, I must sincerely add, they really overdo it. Parents usually do not want their children associating with children from another ethnic background because they are associated with trends they disapprove of. But I must warn young girl, being with a guy without a VISION is likened to embarking on a DEATH MISSION. You shouldn’t be concerned that he has no money now, when you see he has visions why not support him to realize his dreams even as he supports you to realize yours. It takes time to make it in life; TIME PATIENCE AND HARDWORK (PREPARATION) OPPORTUNITY = SUCCESS.For instance, in Nigeria, an Igbo boy’s parents may disapprove of him marrying an Edo girl because it is believed that the people of Edo are involved in prostitution. When preparation meets opportunity, then the stage of success is set.Young lads have sugar-coated tongues which they use to woo young naïve girls to do that which is not expected of them.The words “I LOVE YOU” have been abused continually that it has become mere words to some; something to be said just to make peace, or get what they really want most times (sex).A guy would want to prove to his clique that he is man enough to ask a girl out.Most times they would play games and bet money as to who gets a girl or sleeps with her first.
Most times a girl play really hard to get but it is hard not to develop feelings for someone who is always close to you; one who has shown he truly cares.
A young girl who aborts a child will live with that guilt for the rest of her life.
We all agree sex is sweet and brings a lot of pleasure but the end result is not gooood at all.
Yeah, it’s really sad that that is what our little world has turned to.
To sum it all up, fathers do not like their daughters’ boyfriends for the following reasons:a. They appear really nice and can do anything for their ‘bae’.
We hear of so many women who are unable to conceive because their wombs have been lost to abortions carried out as young girls.