At the same time, if he doesn’t miss you then he’ll never come back, so it’s certainly important! Missing someone isn’t enough of a reason to get back together.
You broke up for a reason, probably several reasons, and those reasons don’t disappear because you miss each other.
If you only tried to make him miss you, you might get him back, but it wouldn’t last.
(Make sure to also read this article for the exact signs your ex misses you.) Fortunately, it is possible to get your ex back and make it work the second time around.
Sometimes it helps to think it through and know the concrete signs that it’s more than infatuation.
If you’re wondering if it could be love, look for these indicators.
You landed on this article because you want to know if the guy you’re seeing truly loves you. Knowing if he loves you is slightly more complex, but really not as difficult as it seems when you know what to look for.
I am all too familiar with the feeling of wanting your ex back, believe me!
(My story did, fortunately, have a happy ending and I am actually married to an ex!
They mistake infatuation and obsession with true love because they can feel the same sometimes. Fears and insecurities can get in the way and cloud your judgment.
The problem is that when you confuse infatuation with real love, it can mean getting overly invested when you shouldn’t, or spending too much time with the wrong person. If you’re busy worrying that he doesn’t love you back, or that he’ll never commit, or that he’s going to leave you, you’ll be in your head so much it will be impossible to be in your heart.
How do you know when, or if, you should act on some of these potential “signs? For advice on identifying these clues (and what to do about them), read on.