Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre or write to Deidre Sanders, The Sun, London SE1 9GF (please enclose SAE). He’s a good-looking guy and the sex was a blast but I know he’s got no real interest in me. I don’t think he’d ever dream of cheating on me but I get bored in the evenings.
I’m happily married but keep finding men I can chat to online. My husband just dozes in front of the telly so I sit at my laptop to see who’s around.
With a younger woman, they will be viewed as sexually viable. They are mesmerized by the wealth, coolness, patience and how powerful older men are.
They will no longer be looked at as unattractive and aging men who are sexually invisible. It is rare to see young girls date a broke old man.
My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex can help revive that spark too. We have been married for 22 years and I think we’re both terribly bored. We’ve worked hard through the years and our two sons have left home. It can get so much better than this because you’re free now to do as you please.
The men will love them because they are free and can give them all the attention they may not be getting at home.
But once they get their senses, they run back to their old ladies.
Snoozing in front of the telly is a recipe for a stale marriage. Choose somewhere fun where you both need to dress up and look great.
It can make a big difference just to get out of the home. Stay out of chatrooms and use that computer to get some new interests, such as finding a course you can study or taking up sport.
When I said he should then take me out for a meal to make up he told me: “Grow up and don’t act like a child.” I felt really hurt and later that night I got back online. His flat was nearby so he invited me back for a coffee.