So if that’s happening, you’re probably looking at a guy who isn’t all that into you… well, you could be saving yourself a ton of time and heartache. so if you think that you have a good relationship with the guy you’re with but you believe he’s starting to lose interest, then I highly recommend you take the following quiz. Good relationships tend to come about when you’re swimming with the current, not against it. if a guy has stopped texting you all of a sudden, and it’s a guy you’ve been seeing for longer than, let’s say, 2 weeks…
at which point I would recommend you would cut things now and meet someone new. Which is foolish on two fronts: first it implies that the time to be impressive is only at the beginning and second it implies that another person should select you because you impressed them (and that you should select them because you found them impressive). I’m not saying that there aren’t those rare cases where some disinterested guy inexplicably changes his tune and comes around… Sooner or later, this kind of thing is going to happen and now is as good a time as any to become comfortable with the idea of giving a guy space.
Without space, it almost feels as though this constant activity is like a vortex that pulls us into it.
We can get caught up in it, thinking about and reacting to the happenings streaming through our smartphone into our head.
When it comes to relationships, treat your actual physical time together as your quality time.
It is infinitely better than text messages, there’s no room for misinterpretation or miscommunication like there is in the limited medium of texting and it takes the pressure off both of you.
you don’t know his patterns yet, so he might be at the gym.
Sooner or later, though, there will be a point where the person you’re seeing doesn’t text back and you’re left wondering what they’re up to…
And if you haven’t discovered this yet, it will be at these moments that you discover one of the necessities of modern relationships is to remain undisturbed when it does happen.
With the social aspect of social media, we might even find it very heard not to feed into the constant drama of it.
Contrasted against that, we have a whole inner world that, for most people, remains largely unexplored.
I mean, could you imagine being bored in today’s world? Plain and simple: It is within moments of space where we are most able to connect with ourselves and the life within us.