They might call your partner by his or her first name, a nickname, or (if the time comes) “step-mom/dad”.
Allow them to refer to the partner in a way that is comfortable for them.
The parent can explain that people adjust differently, and that it is time for him or her to meet and go out with new people, even though the other parent may not be ready to begin another relationship. Children may feel the parent-child relationship doesn’t give parents the opportunity to do all the activities that adults like to do.
It’s important to keep on reminding children that friends and new partners do not replace the love between a parent and a child. Children may feel their parents may get back together again.
10 Things To Consider When Divorced Parents Start Dating Again Children have mixed emotions about their parents’ new relationships.
Depending upon their age, they may feel betrayal, jealousy, anger, confusion and even guilt. Children may feel that the parent who is first to begin a new relationship is betraying the other parent.
It is important that new partners respect that space and treat children as individuals in their own right.