I knew him through my family and hadn't seen him in a while. Since then I've messed around with more girls than I can count, but I have never dated a girl that I knew I couldn't marry - because ultimately that is what I want.We were making the standard mundane small talk about how I was liking school and college life, when the conversation took an interesting turn onto the topic of the girl I'd been dating for the last few months. I worry sometimes when I hear girls saying things like "I want him to be my long-term boyfriend," or when people under the age of 20 get concerned that they haven't had a serious relationship yet.I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. But the ridiculousness of my situation was embarrassingly obvious in the very instant he asked the question.If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset. I knew that - in light of my certainty - my relationship with her was pointless.I remember having the same mindset myself at that age. Granted, no one hopes for this outcome and we have these peripheral ideas about needing time with a person to test the relationship, but in the end of the day, serial relationships do more harm than good.As unfair as it might seem, this phenomenon is more damaging to woman than men.Click below to let us know you read this article, and wiki How will donate to World Possible on your behalf.Thanks for helping us achieve our mission of helping people learn how to do anything.
This can be a good excuse to play with gender roles and power dynamics, an excuse to get the Heteronormative Crusaders all riled up, or simply a way to put a character in an unexpected situation or let a conversation take an unexpected turn.People playing with this trope do it Safe, Sane, and Consensual, and are likely to have a Safe Word.People who see a little bit of what they are doing, without getting the whole picture, might sometimes make the classic Abuse Mistake.Also a way to portray (or show interest in) a fetish.Compare and contrast the tropes where kinkiness is used to indicate that a character is intelligent or a bad person.While usually about individual characters, this trope can also be a characteristic of a Free-Love Future or similar world.