There could be a few potential reasons why I don’t have this desire.1) The 11 years of Prozac and 3.5 years of recovering from Prozac really threw me for a loop and delayed many things in my life, from both a professional and personal standpoint.
If one assumes that many people think about kids in their 30s, maybe I’ll get serious about having them in my mid-40s.
Furthermore, raising kids in NYC is an absolute fortune.3) I am too selfish and want my life to be about me and my partner.
Having kids is a tremendous sacrifice, and I enjoy having my weekends free.4) Maybe it is as simple as kids just weren’t in the plan. What I Think About* This is the first time I have ever dated a woman who has young kids and am confronted with many things that I never faced before.
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A few months ago I went on a coffee date with a very wonderful woman and ever since then we have been seeing each other.
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So, we’ve been together for three months now and everything is going very, very well. And believe me, I am no angel and have plenty of my own issues.
We have tons of shared interests, practice yoga together and, yes, go to all of the NYC organic restaurants. What is even more remarkable is that we have never had one argument since we started spending time together. The Situation She is divorced (well, right on the verge of it becoming legal and having all the papers signed) and has two very young children.
I am 41, have never been married and don’t have any kids.
At this very juncture of my life, I have no burning desire to have kids.
I will have caught up and be ready by then.2) There are several professional goals that I want to achieve before I even consider having kids.